M / 26 / 6'5" / 225lbs- Have always lacked self confidence and have always hated how I've looked. A year or so ago I weighed 250, trying to keep up the consistency and feel better about myself! Any opinions would be appreciated.
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.