I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
40(f) - 130lbs - 5ft 7. After the shower, quick selfie. like it or not, our bodies change over the years. if I could go back and tell 21 year old vulvart 1 thing, it would be to accept it, embrace it and enjoy it xx