I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
F, 25, around 160lb. Still trying to fight off quarantine weight from emotional binging. Feel like a failure after initially losing weight many years ago. Left with saggy boobs and jiggly parts. Not feeling as confident in the bedroom.