I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
(28f, 5β3, 208lbs) might delete in 13 hours. Always had a hard time with my body image because I grew up in a time where you were skinny, blonde, & blue eyed. I came out curvy, brunette, with brown eyes.