You can't really say that he's missing out due to his cage as he would slip out in the position anyway all the time. The cage is the simple and easy solution for him. He does not need to be ashamed of being a bad fuck anymore.
This is one of the most humiliating things you can do. I could cry because I am so ashamed but present myself like the biggest slut. Why am I like this? I don't want to be like this, but I do it again and again
