F21, 138lbs, 5’9. Feel like I have a manly body, no curves and pretty wide shoulders. Also HATE my labia (pretty sure u can tell in the pic how long it is :/). Just wasn’t blessed with good genetics! On a good note I lost 32lbs, went from 170 to 138
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.