I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
So even though I lost a ton of weight (90+ lbs), I still have some issues to resolve in regards to how I feel about how I look. Trying to forget I am turning 60 soon.
(f)40 - 140lbs (ish) - 5ft 7. Typical mom bod. gravity noticed my boobs and my nipples point in different directions. That's just life, love yourself despite the small imperfections - they're what make us unique