F20 - 84 pounds - 5β2 (Yes I know what you are probably thinking and yes Iβm getting help for my issues. I posted this for body positivity for myself because Iβm slowly gaining weight and learning to love my self).
42M 5β7β 190lbs - going on my first beach vacation in three years. I hope this qualifies as a beach body because itβs as good as itβs going to get.
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.