Is it “gay” to fuck cuck boy. I hate labels. Especially in the lifestyle. In my case it’s a power transfer (not to mention it makes wifey dripping wet). But for others, it may be something else.
My wife and I want some crazy stuff where it's an ex, or an alpha guy, or that he is just some big bad man that makes her his. It's hard to explain but I guess we crave a creative guy who wants to push the symbolic things of the situation on us.