when you use ice on her nipples or clit ... it makes them more sensitive and then she can feel more pain ... using cloth pins or burn with hot wax after is recommended 🔥
It’s a sort of nuanced.. but posing her for photos which I have unrestrained freedom to share with anyone I want.. feels like it qualifies as bdsm. Exhibit A: “Arch your back so I can put it on Reddit and show your amazing ass to whoever I want”, f