It never occurred to you that the reason your anal plug kept changing patterns was because your girlfriend was live streaming you all gagged and locked, and the audience was controlling it.
The hard plastic cage covering your privates didn't let any sense of feeling through, but for some reason you tried to still tug on it even if you knew it was a hopeless endeavor.
When your partner suggested you try some bondage to spice things up, you never imaged it would start with 3 weeks of chastity followed by a shibari session ending in free use for all your partner's friends.