I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
27,130lb,5’7. I’m really insecure about my labia, partly because of all the years as teen where I saw porn and heard comments about labia like mine, but now even more because my bf never called it pretty/ attractive etc. but has called his ex lovers