I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
[F] 24, 180lbs, 5'6. 5 months after spinal surgery. Can you even see the scar? I'm not 100% recovered but I try to remind myself that I should be grateful to be able to walk again.