These days the girly looks and the cage were just part of the normal attire your mistress expected of you, however the leaking in the cage that was constant, was punishable by a whip, cane, or longer sentence. It all depended on her mood.
You always thought you had problems with being insensitive down there, however, it would appear you just jerked off too much and lost sensitivity, 2 months in chastity fixed that.
