I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
40(f) -130lbs - 5ft 7. Having a bit of self negativity about myself over the last couple of days. feeling old and frumpy and nothing fits right. need a chilled weekend to refresh and appreciate what I have ❤️👍