I remember the first time I put a bell on Slavewife's collar. She got upset and said it wasn't pretty or sexy, it just made her feel like a doll I was playing with. To her credit, she figured out within seconds that that was the point.
Having a lit candle in the ass or pussy is one of most exciting (most difficult to perform) tasks I've ever demanded a slave ... some loved it ... some not so much ... what do you think of this?