My wife and I want some crazy stuff where it's an ex, or an alpha guy, or that he is just some big bad man that makes her his. It's hard to explain but I guess we crave a creative guy who wants to push the symbolic things of the situation on us.
Ownership is more easily handled once accepted completely. Newbie couples may find it distressful initially, being the property of a black or hispanic master, oh how the roles have changed. But it is pure bliss once you accept your role in life. To serve