I remember the first time I put a bell on Slavewife's collar. She got upset and said it wasn't pretty or sexy, it just made her feel like a doll I was playing with. To her credit, she figured out within seconds that that was the point.
Edged and denied for weeks. Pussy aching and desperate. Gagged, blindfolded and bound to my own table. He told me to cum just from the sensation of the hot wax hitting my exposed skin. And I did.