I [F] just wanted to drop you an image of my little guy [M] in his happy place between my thighs. Don't give up hope. Gentle/Mommy Dommes exist and/or may be cultivated. Know what you want and seek it, craft it.
So what's something that Flips your switch and will make you sub out every time? Me personally face sitting will do it every time. And for Dommes out there, what's your favorite way of establishing yourself over your subs?